DandC - "Charlie Tan has a tattoo on his left arm that reads “NON SIBI,” a Latin phrase meaning “not for self” that symbolized the spirit of his fraternity at Cornell University.
“Non Sibi — how I like to think my actions reflect in the whole scheme of things,” Tan wrote in an email to his Chi Phi brothers a few hours before his mother called 911 in February 2015 to report Tan shot his father to death. “Thank you for teaching me this lesson.”
How disappointed Tan must be then that one of his fraternity brothers is rolling over on him to save himself.
The brother, Whitney Knickerbocker, bought the Remington 12-gauge shotgun that killed Tan’s father. He bought it at a Walmart in Cortland County a few days before Tan’s mother made that 911 call and a few hours after Tan tried unsuccessfully to buy the same gun."